Minxysboytoy
06-19-2009, 04:17 AM
... purchasing clothes, shoes, boots, lingerie etc. for your lover.
Although I take immense pleasure in doing all of the above I sometimes think that it is maybe being too domineering or sexist in some ways to purchase items of clothing that I would like to see my lover wearing.
I have been quite lucky and seem to have clicked with her tastes and so far have not offended my lady with some items of clothing that I feel would look sensational on her. From conventional clothes that catch my eye in a boutique window or some pretty footwear are all gracefully accepted along with more decadent, fetish items which are for private moments together.
I have often suggested an outfit from her extensive wardrobe that I would love to see her wearing and even sometimes have taken to browsing the wardrobe to select something for her and taken great pleasure in laying it all out on the bed for her to find. Although when corsets are involved, she would prefer to dress herself and then make a grand appearance, I do rather delight in tightly lacing her up.
Is this something that is common amongst folk on this forum and is this an acceptable practice?
Although I take immense pleasure in doing all of the above I sometimes think that it is maybe being too domineering or sexist in some ways to purchase items of clothing that I would like to see my lover wearing.
I have been quite lucky and seem to have clicked with her tastes and so far have not offended my lady with some items of clothing that I feel would look sensational on her. From conventional clothes that catch my eye in a boutique window or some pretty footwear are all gracefully accepted along with more decadent, fetish items which are for private moments together.
I have often suggested an outfit from her extensive wardrobe that I would love to see her wearing and even sometimes have taken to browsing the wardrobe to select something for her and taken great pleasure in laying it all out on the bed for her to find. Although when corsets are involved, she would prefer to dress herself and then make a grand appearance, I do rather delight in tightly lacing her up.
Is this something that is common amongst folk on this forum and is this an acceptable practice?